Harmony within Yourself
Harmony with your personality is not easy to reach. In most cases the reason of this universal complexity implies our inability to define at least the approximate location or even essence of things which contribute to achieving the harmony within ourselves.
It takes time and doesn't need any extra help i.e. you are quite able to reach success by yourself. Reaching harmony within your personality implies treating yourself right, treating other people around you in a fair manner. The issue is profoundly deep and requires much effort to be realized in practice.
In any case, the game is definitely worth the candle because once you gain blissful state of body and soul called harmony, your life becomes much easier. You start treating yourself and others in a way that prompts balance and your satisfaction with yourself. You take everything easy and as a result are ready to fight with your troubles instead of turning around from them.
Harmony with yourself requires your inner world's reconstruction which is a long process but still suggests feasibility. Where there's a will there's away, they say after all.