Harmony in a Relationship

What is the basis of harmonious relationship? This is a question which requires some hard thinking – if one wants to receive or give the right answer that is. Some people, being selfish and arrogant as partners in relationships don't even try to reach harmony with their partners being perfectly satisfied with what they have – quarrels and misunderstandings, fights and hurt feelings.
Reaching harmony within a relationship suggests living up to one fundamental advice of the wise which suggests placing yourself in your partner's shoes which in its turn implies attempts to understand your soul mate and his or her psychological condition, possible hard feelings towards you or any possible misunderstandings existing between you.
In order to reach harmony with your partner you should learn how to talk to your soul mate in a calm sensible manner. Moreover, you should be able to listen to your partner – just for your conversations to result in a constructive conclusion and rational solution which fits your couple in general and each of you separately.
If you think you are close to harmonious attitude to your partner and his or her desires and needs regarding you, it may feel that the situation is slightly unfair because you don't feel equally cherishing attitude from your soul mate's side. In this case have a constructive conversation with him or her and mildly get through to him or her your own desires and needs.