Harmony and Other People
In order to reach harmony within your relations with other people you should firmly realize who they are and what they mean to you – again, harmonizing process starts with yourself even if it isn't directly connected with you.
If your goal is to establish harmonious relationship with your colleagues, then you should behave flexible and charming enough in order it not to look and i.e. not to be viewed as flattery or lickspittle.
It implies your professional behaviour peppered with firm position combined with responsibility regarding your mail colleagues and enough amounts of compliments towards your female co-workers – if they love them that is – flexibility suggests feeling these things.
In case you want to (re)establish harmony with your friends or loved one, then you should learn to be tolerant to people, to understand them and be able to imaginarily swap sides with them just to learn how it feels wandering along the road of life in their shoes.
Plus, it's important to be yourself with other people if you want to establish harmonious relations with them. If people figure out that you behave in a fake unnatural manner with them, then it will scarcely prompt their positive attitude to you and i.e. will not lead to your mutually harmonious interaction. That's why if you want people to percept you positively you should first of all be yourself and then – if your self is not too perfect – try and change a few unappealing things about yourself.