Harmony and Friendship

Friends are very important for each and everyone of us. If we feel disharmony within our friendship, we certainly start worrying. Our main mistake in the situation is often inability to even assume that the difficult situation is (partially) our fault i.e. inability to view the case from different angles.
Harmonious relations with your good friends always feel very good. They please our mind and soul and bring us the realization of balance within our friendly connections which invariably suggests that our friends are still our rocks to build on and fine stable shoulders to cry on – depends on the situation.
Disharmonious relations with your friends scarcely suggests any calm or peace of mind because if your communication is torn apart by some disbalancing circumstances – dirty gossip or unresolved misunderstandings – the case certainly doesn't reward you with any harmonious thoughts and conclusions.
That's why in order to renew your harmony with a friend of yours you should first of all talk – in a calm and sensible manner without any fights or on-purpose misunderstandings based on mutually non-beneficial defensive blindness and inability to hear each other.
The second step is figuring out what's wrong and what's right regarding the bone of contention between you and your good friend. You certainly don't want to lose your friend, on the contrary, you strive for reintensify the used to be so inspiring harmony within your interaction.